Common Wedding Day Regrets & How To Avoid Them: Insights With Special Guest Miri
Weddings are days filled with joy, laughter, and sometimes a touch of regret. When a couple's wedding has been and gone, upon reflection there are sometimes regrets. In our time as wedding pros, we see that these regrets are usually the same for most couples. Things they didn’t do that they wish they had. Things they didn’t take into consideration when they probably should have. Putting way too much time into areas and didn’t mean diddly squat on the day. And even thinking “I don’t need to do that” to only look back and say “yep… I should have done that.
In this episode of Cut The Cake, we discuss with a special guest Miri from Married by Miri, 10 wedding day regrets we have found to be the most common in shaping a couples wedding experience.
But this episode isn’t about the doom and gloom of what you will regret when looking back on your wedding day. It’s about 3 experienced wedding pros having the most open discussion based on our couple experiences, and educating our listeners on what you might like to take into consideration when planning your wedding.
Key Takeaways:
Ensure to have a wet weather backup plan in place to avoid undue stress and potential disappointment.
Choose wedding attire that is not only visually appealing but also comfortable and reflective of personal style.
Invest time in selecting the right vendors who you connect with and who work well as a team to create a stress-free and enjoyable wedding experience.
The Vitality of a Wet Weather Backup Plan
It's essential to recognize the unpredictability of the weather and the significant impact it can have on a wedding day. As Miri, a marriage celebrant, plainly states:
"I've invested a lot of money in my PA system… you will piss off a lot of people if you're forcing us to work in the rain, or there's extreme heat and our equipment will overheat and it will fail… It's awful but it happens. It's not a good day for you; it's not a good day for your vendor either."
The necessity of a wet weather backup plan transcends mere preference; it's a matter of practicality and consideration for all involved—from guests to vendors. A robust plan B ensures that, regardless of external conditions, the celebration continues seamlessly. This proactive approach not only alleviates potential anxieties but also safeguards the investment made by both the couple and their chosen professionals.
Selecting the Perfect Wedding Attire
When it comes to choosing wedding attire, the significance of comfort cannot be overstated. Often, brides and grooms succumb to societal expectations or momentary trends in their choice of wedding dress or suit. However, as Mel, a wedding planner, suggests, the key lies in the ability to truly “test your dress.” She encourages trying on the attire and mimicking movements of dancing to ensure practicality:
“If you can’t do Gangnam style in your dress, and that’s your favorite song, what’s the point of getting it?”
Moreover, the idea of having multiple dresses for different parts of the event is gaining traction. By changing into a more comfortable outfit for the reception, one can enjoy festivities wholeheartedly. The crux is choosing attire that not only resonates with one’s personal style but also supports the desire to be fully present and engaged during the celebration.
Choosing the Right Wedding Vendors
Developing a personal connection with wedding vendors plays a vital role in creating a harmonious and memorable wedding day. The relationship between a couple and their vendors is akin to a partnership—one that thrives on mutual understanding and shared vision.
Miri emphasizes the importance of interviews and interactions with multiple vendors to ensure a perfect fit:
"Spread it out and just have those different chats with different people to understand who you connect with… If you can connect with your vendors on the day, honestly, your planning and the wedding day is going to be so much better."
Weddings are collaborative efforts where every vendor's contribution, from florists to photographers, weaves together to form the event's fabric. Couples are encouraged to leverage the expertise and recommendations of vendors they trust, fostering a reliable network that delivers a cohesive and pleasurable wedding experience.
After delving deep into the prevalent wedding day regrets, it becomes clear that thoughtful preparation is key. Whether it's a backup for inclement weather, wearing what truly feels right, or being selective with vendors, the ultimate goal is to reflect the couple's identity and values. Each decision made in the planning process is a step closer to a day that is not just visually appealing but also a heartfelt and genuine representation of the union. And, as these industry experts have demonstrated, with the right guidance and approach, those "regrets" can transform into cherished memories and valuable lessons.
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